"us people say harsh things, when we’re hurt. even though it’s wrong to say, sometimes, we can’t help ourselves. people lash out when they are angry, or wrong. and that’s okay to feel. but you should never make a promise you don’t intend to keep. there will always be circumstance that gets in the way, and that’s just what comes, that’s reality. but at least, if you are to promise something to somebody, make sure it’s something you would continue to try. don’t promise to be there, just to walk away, when things get tough, or people get complicated. it’s different when you can’t uphold your promise, rather than you’re not willing to, anymore."